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If you are Feeling Lonely, Forget those “Love Yourself” Mantras. Do This Instead.

“I don’t think anybody can fall in love unless they feel lonely.” ~ Trungpa Rinpoche

Forget those “love yourself” mantras.

Forget those affirmations, self-help guides, stacks of chocolate, and wine.

Forget anything

that might ease your pain.

Forget anything

that will not make you sit alone with yourself.

Today, I understood the weight of the statement  “make friends with your loneliness”  and what it might mean. When sadness comes, we   have   to allow ourselves to feel it.

It doesn’t matter how long we have to sit with it. If we don’t, it will take us over, sooner or later. It will wipe us out, shatter us into pieces, without an anchor to grab, nothing to hold onto.

So when the tears are pushing through, let them drop.

Bathe in them, invite them for tea, make friends with them.

Don’t wake up and say, “You are okay.”

Instead ask yourself, “How are you, today?”

Without a filter

without a shelter

without a hug

without anything but your presence

without judgement

listen to it, like your best friend.

Be there. And listen.

Because when you sit there with the

loneliness, sadness, fear, boredom, restlessness, solitude

Something happens:

you are not alone anymore.

Author: Sara Kärpänen
Image: With the permission of  Ariel Majtas

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Comment by desmond dillon on March 27, 2018 at 12:36pm

enough true meditation and all lonliness is disappeared and replaced by the love from within.. everything in our mind seeks to avoid meditation and we must meditate anyway.. go for it and never give up..

Comment by Luna Arjuna on March 26, 2018 at 1:37pm

I'm so glad I read this today:

Quote of the moment:

"PEACE
NOT WAR
GENEROSITY
NOT GREED
EMPATHY
NOT HATE
CREATIVITY
NOT DESTRUCTION
EVERYBODY
NOT JUST US"

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