It only takes ONE!

[Dalry Mary Jones]

 

Beloved Fraternals

 

Most of you know me as friends or family or from Dalry’s Story. Some know me since then. Others do not now me personally.

 

I’m an Australian grandmother of 73 living in Cambodia for the past 12 months. My carer driver has been a Cambodian man of 31, married with a small daughter. Prior to October 2010 my driver was on the whole helpful and amenable. Then at a wedding he linked up with 10 friends from his youth…..blood brothers quite literally.These friends had deserted him in his own time of great need but now wished to make amends. Week by week they undermined the goodwill in his and my relationship.

 

 He started to steal from me and also began a programme of pressure and harassment designed to undermine my health and capacities. 73 is not OLD old. What he did was not on its own capable of too much damage … but the fact that I had also undertaken major responsibilities regarding projects on behalf of an Australian Foundation lent added impetus to his efforts….resulting EVERY SO OFTEN in a disasterous effect on my wellbeing.

 

Yet every time I went down for the count I came back stronger and more resilient than ever… and with a greater capacity for non-conditional love, compassion, mercy, gratitude, acknowledgement and grace.

 

Research revealed to me that what I was being subjected to was consistent with WHAT MILLIONS OF OTHER DISABLED AND AGED PEOPLE ARE EXPERIENCING AT THE HANDS OF FAMILY AND CARERS WORLDWIDE.

 

Knowing that I was standing alone but ON BEHALF OF MANY OTHERS lent added impetus and resolve to my intention to break through this persecution and lay it to rest once and for all.

 

This demanded constant outlays on my part …..energy .. money …things...time…BUT ABOVE ALL PATIENCE and PERSERVERANCE to bring everything out into the open ….. so that I could be sure that I wasn’t being carried away by own misperceptions ….. and so that others could see through the haze of lies and misrepresentation to perceive what was actually happening.

 

Dear Fraternals …. may I say in all truth ….. this has been a journey like no other. A journey into the depths of my own being and into the mirror of my own soul.

 

Every relationship I have or had is being been tested on the basis of our mutual recognition of the vulnerability of those who are disabled and who are of the older generation.

 

But let it be known…….FROM THIS DAY ON THE PERSECUTION OF THE DISABLED AND AGED BY ANYONE AT ALL INCLUDING THE MEDICAL PROFESSION…GOVERNMENTS ….NEIGHBOURS….AND THOSE NEAREST AND DEAREST…. IS DONE….FOREVER!!!

 

IT ONLY TAKES ONE!

 

Will you stand with me??

 

 

[Irit Hakim-Keller]

Dear Dalry,

What a wonderful assertive woman you are!!!!

I AM standing with you.

[Adolphus Francis Quintus Andradi]

Oh! yes Dalry, I will stand with you all the way like most others will in this site. It must have taken a great deal of courage and strength of mind to have done  what you did. We need to stand by so many innocent and ignorant people fleeced and hoodwinked especially by the medical profession, of course many governments and so many unscrupulous people everywhere in the world. That seems to be the order of the day. Hats off to you and others of your calibre who stand up to it and help others to do so.

[Eva Libre]

 

Stay With Me

I will pray for you, stay with you

until my heartstrings come undone.

These strings will tie me to your sticks

and you'll be my master.

My heart will spill for you, and beat for you

untill all my veins come unstrung.

 

I will die with you, decay with you

until my heartsprings pull apart.

These sticks play me as a marionette

and I'll entertain for you.

Can you stay with me, and lay with me

until the stars fall from the skies?

 

Will you play with me, come with me

until my lungs give out?

These breaths you take are the ones

you should never let go.

Will you dance with me, and stay with me,

until our souls become one?

 

-  theforgottenone  -